| Location | Nuneaton |
| Age | 22 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 06/09/1983 |
| Date of Death | 28/10/2005 |
| Visitors | 11,977 since 06/10/2008 |
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My Dazzle 1983-2005
Darren "Daz" Marsh
Darren was my only son and he was born on 6th September 1983a healthy boy and I was so proud. I used
to sit with him rocking him in my rocking chair for hours. He was my precious little bundle and we
were inseperable.
The day he died will stay with me until the day I leave this world.
I had to do this eulogy in my son's memory and also for myself, as on another memorial site in Daz's
memory a eulogy has been written which has a few untruths which I have to clear with you all because
when I read them I was broken hearted and hurt.
My Darren was well loved and had a good relationship with me (his mum), Gary (his Dad and his two
sisters Trina and Nats. In Stacie's eulogy she mentioned Daz's family had nothing to do with him,
that is an awful thing to be told. My best friend Von rang me in tears to tell me what she had read.
If losing Daz wasn't hurting I had to be told that the eulogy had made out that my Darren was not in
contact with his family, which is a complete lie.
Darren had gone off the rails when he was eleven. Me and his dad split up and Daz found it hard to
understand. He kept running away from his home in Nuneaton to ride his bike to Coventry to find his
dad. It was so sad that all he wanted was for me and his dad to get back together, that was never
going to happen and my Daz found it hard to accept this. He was taken into care because I could not
cope with him, but I still loved and cared for him and attended every meeting with him, social
workers and foster parents.
He was a loving caring son, he would often arrive at my house with a crunchie, packet of crisps and
a bottle of diet coke. Many a day I would find bunches of flowers on the back door step from him. He
never forgot my birthday or mothers day. I still have all the cards that he gave me.
When he was born I used to have nightmares that he had been killed on the road, as he grew older the
nightmares disappeared. Until that cold October morning when the police turned up to tell me that
my gorgeous boy had lost his life and he hadn't stood a chance. I was crushed and didn't believe
it.
I was asked to identify Daz's lifeless body, so myself, his dad and sisters all went together. It
was the longest hardest journey of my life, as I walked to the mortuaryI was shaking and crying
hoping it wasn't him. As I entered the room with Daz's dad I could see the lifeless body was our
Darren. He was only just 22. He had his whole life ahead of him. Why? Why? It is a memory I will
never get out of my head, I can see him now as I am writing this. My heart beats so fast and I get
so angry and there is nothing I can do. And I still think I will see him soon. I miss him so very,
very much. I miss his cuddles. I miss his kisses and I miss his gorgeous smile and his wonderful
white gleaming teeth. His smile turned a grey sky blue every time.
I was hurt by the comments that we had nothing to do with him, (no way) my Daz had many friends and
all of his family loved that boy's bones. And we all talk about things that he used to get up to and
many happy memories.
When Darren was born I nicknamed him "Dazzle" and never did I know in my heart that wonderful,
loving, caring boy would be in heaven shining down on us all, and would be the biggest star
"dazzling" down on me.
Darren is with me in every way, heart, soul and mind. I loved my son and i know he loved me and I
wish I could have made Daz happy by getting back with his dad. That is all he wanted was to have his
family complete and he tried so hard. God bless you my darling boy, my heart is broken and without
you son I am nothing. I visit you every week and bring you flowers. I hope you can hear me when I
talk to you.
Love always babe, Mum xxx
Sweet Dreams Darren
You may not be able to see me,
Though you think that I am gone.
Inside your heart you carry me,
So I live on, I live on.
I know you feel an emptiness,
Of words we left unsaid.
Release your pain, forgive yourself,
For I already did.
The love you gave, I took with me,
And left my love for you.
So now I know some time has passed,
Here is what I ask of you.
Share my life and remember me,
To those you love – out loud.
And I will become part of them,
For that would make me proud.
Those little quirks, the quips I said,
Please share those memories.
For there is no plaque or stone,
That would better honor me.
I loved you then, and love you still,
And will forevermore.
So take my love and pass it down,
That’s what my legacy is for.
Give my memories, my love as gifts,
And do not mourn that I have gone.
Just place my love in your Heart always
And you will know that I live on.
Love always Fran
November 21, 2009
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Our Reunion in Heaven Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
We weren't prepared that day,
When God called you away.
So many tears we cried,
Longing to keep you at our side.
How we loved and missed you so,
And weren't ready to let you go,
But it gives us comfort to know,
Within the twinkling of our eyes,
You entered into paradise.
A place with beauty beyond measure,
Eternal happiness and treasure,
Where you have no more pain or tears,
Nor sorrow, worries, and fears.
Although, for now, we are apart,
Your precious memories live in our heart,
Until God calls us each to heaven's door,
Where we'll be reunited, forever more
Author Unknown
Love Always Brenda xxxxx
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I would like to thank everyone for all the candles, tributes & pictures that are left on Christopher's website they are all very much appreciated.
Tributes For Week Starting 23rd November
FOR MONDAY
The best and most beautiful
Things in the world cannot
Be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart.
FOR TUESDAY
Gone yet not forgotten,
Although we are apart,
Your spirit lives within me,
Forever in my heart.
FOR WEDNESDAY
A gift for such a little while,
Your loss just seems so wrong,
You should not have left before us,
It’s with loved ones you belong.
FOR THURSDAY
Perhaps they are not
Stars in the sky,
But rather openings
Where our loved ones shine down
To let us know they are happy.
FOR FRIDAY
The Watcher
They always leaned to watch for us
Anxious if we were late,
In winter by the window,
In summer by the gate.
And though we mocked them tenderly
Who had such foolish care,
The long way home would seem more safe,
Because they waited there.
Their thoughts were all so full of us,
They never could forget,
And so I think that where they are
They must be watching yet.
Waiting ‘til we come home to them
Anxious if we are late
Watching from Heaven’s window
Leaning from Heaven’s gate.
FOR SATURDAY
As We Look Back
As we look back over time
We find ourselves wondering .....
Did we remember to thank you enough
For all you have done for us?
For all the times you were by our sides
To help and support us .....
To celebrate our successes
To understand our problems
And accept our defeats?
Or for teaching us by your example,
The value of hard work, good judgement,
Courage and integrity?
We wonder if we ever thanked you
For the sacrifices you made.
To let us have the very best?
And for the simple things
Like laughter, smiles and times we shared?
If we have forgotten to show our
Gratitude enough for all the things you did,
We're thanking you now.
And we are hoping you knew all along,
How much you meant to us.
FOR SUNDAY
To Those Whom I Love and Those Who Love Me
When I am gone, release me, let me go
I have so many things to see and do
You must not tie yourself to me with tears
Be happy that I have had so many years
I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave me in happiness
I think you for the love each have shown
But now it is time I traveled on alone
So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust
It is only for a while that we must part
So bless the memoriss in your heart
I will not be far away, for life goes on
So if you need me, call and I will come
Though you can not see or touch me, I will be near
And if you listen with your heart, you will hear
All of my love around you soft and clear
Then, when you must come this way alone
I will greet you with a smile and a
"Welcome Home"
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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Eternal Light
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Heaven
If we could visit heaven,ღ♥ღ
Even for a day,ღ♥ღ
Maybe for a moment,ღ♥ღ
The pain would go away,ღ♥ღ
I'd put my arms around you,ღ♥ღ
And whisper words so true,ღ♥ღ
That living life without you,ღ♥ღ
Is the hardest thing to do.ღ♥ღ
No matter how we spend our days,ღ♥ღ
No matter what we do,ღ♥ღ
No morning dawns or evening falls,ღ♥ღ
When we don't think of you xx.ღ♥ღ
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When you feel you miss me most,
As time goes drifting by,
Each memory will prove to you,
That love can never die,
That while I left you far too soon,
I did not go alone,
For the Father sent his Angels,
To gently guide me home,
Take comfort when you think of me,
Keep my love deep within your Heart,
And with the warmth of each memory,
We will never be apart.
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LOVE FOR THE WEEKEND FROM ANNEMARIE XXXXXXXXX
God will not abandon you
When your feeling low
His there every step of the way
When a loved one has to go
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He puts his arms around you
You may not feel him in there
But in your times of grief
God is always there to care
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He looks after our loved ones
In heaven where they live
God is there for them too
Unconditional love he does give
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When our time does come
God will take our hand
He will lead us to our angels
To Gods beautiful heavenly land
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Written By Jayne Roddy
XxX OoO
POEMS SENT WITH LOVE FOR PRECIOUS ANGELS,HAVE A NICE WEEKEND, 19TH NOVEMBER 09
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥H ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄ƷA ♥ ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥HALINA ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ ☆ THURSƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ H♥
Angels
May angels rest beside your door,
May you hear their voices sing.
May you feel their loving care for you,
May you hear their peace bells ring.
May angels always care for you,
And not let you trip and fall,
May they bear you up on angel's wings,
May they keep you standing tall.
May they whisper wisdom in your ear,
May they touch you when you need,
May they remove from you each trace of fear,
May they keep you from feeling greed.
May they fill you with their presence,
May they show you love untold,
May they always stand beside you
And make you ever bold.
May they teach you what you need to know
About life here and here-after.
May they fill you always with their love
And give you the gift of laughter
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Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥HA ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥HA ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ ☆ FRIƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ HA♥ ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ ☆
Where Did You Come From ?
Where did you come from, Baby dear?
Out of the everywhere into here.
Where did you get your eyes so blue?
Out of the sky as I came through.
What makes the light in them sparkle and spin?
Some of the starry spikes left in.
Where did you get that little tear?
I found it waiting when I got here.
What makes your forehead so smooth and high?
A soft hand stroked it as I went by,
What makes your cheek like a warm white rose?
I saw something better than anyone knows.
Whence that three-comer'd smile of bliss?
Three angels gave me at once a kiss.
Where did you get this pearly ear?
God spoke, and it came out to hear.
Where did you get those arms and bands?
Love made itself into hooks and hands.
Feet, whence did you come, you darling things?
From the same box as the cherubs' wings.
Where did you get that dimple so cute,
God touched my cheek as I came through.
How did they all come just to be you?
God thought of me, and so I grew.
But how did you come to us, you dear?
God thought of you, and so I am here.
George MacDonald, 1871
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥HA ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ HA♥ ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ ☆ SATURDAYƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥HA ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ ☆
Angels Always There
Whenever I’m in fervent prayer
I feel God’s holy angels there;
Protective, loving, and serene;
Who stay nereby, tho yet unseen.
Thus, when I feel my heart might break,
I try to smile for Jesus’ sake;
Whose angels let my faith not dim
That I might see the smile of Him!
Sancie Earman King
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ ☆HA Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥SUN ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥HA ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ ☆
Stone walls do not a prison make,
Nor iron bars a cage;
Minds innocent of quiet take
That for an hermitage;
If I have freedom in my love
And in my soul am free,
Angels alone that sore above
Enjoy such liberty.
Richard Lovelace
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ HA♥ ☆ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ ☆HA Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥ ☆
TAKECARE.LOVE FOR TODAY,TOMORROW AND FOREVER.
IN MY LOVING THOUGHTS ALWAYS.LOVE ALWAYS HALINA XXXXXXXXXX THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR CONTINUAL SUPPORT FOR MY ANGELS AND I XXXXXXXXX
MIGHT DARREN
My broken heart..
Will never mend
So lots of kisses..
I shall send
We think of you..
In a better place
With beautiful wings..
And a smile on your face
Every day is a struggle you see
Trying to cope..
So please help me
How do I cope?
I do not know
My heart is broken..
So that goes to show
I can't except you are gone
I need you here..
Please keep me strong
Stay by my side..
Show me the way
Help me to cope every day
I love and miss you so much..
And I always will
Since you have been gone..
Time has stood still
I think of you in heaven..
With Gods Angels up above
Please my precious Angel..
Watch over me with love
LV ALWAYS MANDY.XXX.
Night night Darren
GOODNIGHT,GOD BLESS SPECIAL ANGEL.XXX
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┊　┊　┊　 ♥ Those we Love don't go away
┊　┊　♥ They walk beside us every day,
┊　 ♥ Unseen,unheard, but always near,
♥ Still Loved,still missed and very dear.
With love Always
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Jill
xxx
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Three Little Words,xx
♥Three Little Words
Forget Me Not,
They Don't Say Much
But They Mean A lot,
Forget You Not
I Never Will,
For In My Heart
I Keep You Still.....♥
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The pain we feel inside today
Is the pain we try to hide,
For no one will ever know
The tears i cry inside.
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It seems like only yesterday
The wound is still so sore.
For every hour of every day
We miss you more and more
For you are someone special
And think the world of you.
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You gave us love
And lots more,
We have so much
To thank you for,
Silent thoughts,
Memories deep,
Locked in our hearts
For ever to keep.
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♥ May the winds of love ♥
♥ blow softly and whisper ♥
♥ in your ear how much ♥
♥ we love and miss you ♥
♥ and wish that you were here♥
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Love To You And Your Angel
Always Sharon & Angel Stacey xxx
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